Able, trusted servants, together with sound and appropriate methods of choosing them,
are indispensable for effective functioning at all service levels.
– Spiritual Principle: Ability
There were many years I felt I wasn’t good enough. Even when studying something over and over and hearing other people praise me for what I had done or could do, I still didn’t believe it. Deep within I didn’t believe it possible that I would be good enough. My self esteem was very low and the lies I told myself were cemented firmly into my head. I felt I was a jack of all trades and master of none. I believed I didn’t measure up for anything, Repeated blows in my deluded state, cemented that false belief.
In learning a new way of living since coming to OA with the 12 Steps, things changed. When I look back at all those things I excelled in but never felt good enough, I find those are the very skills that my HP is using when I serve. Honing these skills in doing service, as in any skill, gets better.
Fear coursed through me when first doing service. Am I good enough? Will I make mistakes? Yup, sure will, but that is where I learn. Repetition is my only form of permanence. Whatever I practice, it gets easier. Whenever I open my mind to learn, my world opens up to new possibilities.
That willingness to learn, gives me experience invaluable for service. When I read “Able, trusted servants, with sound and appropriate methods of choosing them, are indispensable for effective functioning at all service levels.”, I totally understand that now.
When recently taking on a position new to me which was very much overwhelming. I questioned my ability to chair such a committee. I felt very much out of my element. Two fellows had confidence in me that I was right for the position. At times I felt they were crazy. At times I wanted to run, but I knew in that discomfort, there was going to be lessons I needed to learn.
Things are easier now. Acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. I know I need to TRUST my HP and know I am right where I need to be.
I love it when the Concepts come alive in my life.
-Anonymous
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